HOW TO INTRODUCE A STRAP-ON DILDO TO YOUR LOVER:
Stage One of enjoying a strapon dildo is to introduce it to your lover. One person can have fun with a strap-on dildo but never as much as two!!

Unless, as a couple, you've already shared strap-on fantasies together, or your lover has dropped hints, it’s never a good idea to just slip one on and shout “surprise!!”

Only you know how much tact and diplomacy may be needed when introducing the idea of a strapon dildo to your lover.

Sex toys can cause surprising reactions, so even if you’re pretty confident of a delighted response, it’s probably best to tread carefully at first. Let patience and leisurely seduction be your mantra.

Beware of bulldozing in with “I wanna play with a strapon dildo….” At best, it sounds very "me-me" with little thought for their desires.

At worse, you’ll seem desperate and dissatisfied with your sex life.

As for any previous strapon experience, unless you both get hot reminiscing about former sexual encounters, it’s wise to not mention former encounters; Afterall this’ll be your first time exploring strapon sex together.

Whispering your fantasy, away from the heat of the bedroom, but still within a loved-up atmosphere (a romantic bath together?) is a good way to test the water. Whet their appetite ( as well as other places … ) by turning them onto the idea and be sure to use words that involve them: “I have this fantasy where we’re playing with a strapon dildo…” - maybe simply talking about it together will cause things to get steamy...

Anticipation spices up any sexual encounter. Use it at every stage of strapon seduction and you can’t go far wrong. From choosing your DILDO together, to it sliding into a HARNESS, to LUBING IT UP , to the best bit; teasing your lover mercilessly with your new toy.